How do you want your child to handle the unwanted situations that inevitably show up at times during our life? Do you want them to roll around in their missing out lens or do you want them to be able to accept the reality of the unwanted and get solution focussed about it?
Parents are often trying to teach their children about life, right in the middle of an emotional situation and when they’re in an emotion of stress (hurt, anger, defensiveness).
But guess what? They can’t hear you?
We need to get curious about why they are behaving that way. We need to accept the reality that they are, and shift our attention to the why.
To do this, there are three key areas of your child’s life we need to focus on
It’s time to get into observation mode and really SEE, HEAR and UNDERSTAND your child’s behaviour in preparation for section two of this program, where we’re moving into “Your child and their emotions”.